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Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by Guest on March 28th 2009, 7:46 am


Cov phooj ywg hmoob,nej pua xav hai tias peb cov niam txiv hmoob hmuag ntxhai or sale daughter? Kuv xav hai tias peb hmoob cov lus tsi yog lus lawm xwb,vim li ca? vim hai tias txoj kev hai lus no peb hmoob hai tsi yog lus.. los lus sib yuav no nws txhai lus American hai tias: sale,or buy. Cov lus hmoob yuav kom hai yog lus ma hi li no: sib qaws ua neej thiaj li yuav raug lus li lus Amerecan marry, yog yuav hi li hmoob hai tias sib yuav no ces muab txai ua lus American ces yog buy or sale no xwb ma.. cov lus no twb tsi yog lus lawm ne. Peb hmoob yeej ib txwm tsi tau hmuag tub kis los sav! tsua yog ob nkawm los yog (pair) ntawd nkawv zoosiab los ua niam txiv or marry lo yog sib qaws ua neej nyob ua kes xwb peb tsi tau hai tias nkawv sib yuav.. It doen't meant that those boy's and girl are sold or buy each other. We hmong had missed our own dialect for along time and used the none dialect to the public this is not the right communication.

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by Guest on March 28th 2009, 9:03 am

Milwaukee County
Hmong couple were legally married, judge rules

By Marie Rohde of the Journal Sentinel

Posted: Mar. 27, 2009

Milwaukee County Circuit Judge Michael Guolee on Friday declared that a marriage between a Hmong couple was legal - even though the bride said she had been abducted at the age of 12 and said she never consented to the union.

Guolee found that the 16-year marriage between the two was irretrievably broken and divorced the couple who have six children, the oldest 16.

Gregg Herman, a Milwaukee lawyer and past president of the American Bar Association's Family Law Section, said affirming a marriage in such a case is unusual but not unique.

"It's sort of the retroactive granting of a marriage license," Herman said. "It's done more often when there's a technical irregularity."

Both the man and the woman testified that they believed their marriage was valid.

The man, Thaying Lor, 42, is being held in jail on attempted sexual assault and five counts of sexual assault of the woman based on her testimony at an earlier hearing in the divorce case. At that hearing, she testified she had never consented to the marriage and she had been raped by Lor.

Milwaukee County Deputy Sheriff Anthony Moffett contacted the district attorney's office after hearing the testimony, saying it was his duty to report any crime that came to his attention. The wife, who has a different name, is not being identified by the Journal Sentinel because she is a victim of sexual assault.

There are about 40,000 Hmong living in Wisconsin. Lor and the woman came to the United States from Southeast Asia as political refugees.

Lor testified he came to Milwaukee in 1988. The woman was born in Laos and came to Milwaukee with her family at the age of 10.
Mother's testimony

Her mother testified through an interpreter that Lor abducted her daughter and kept her for three days. He then approached the mother and her husband, and a contract was drawn up that included a $3,000 payment to the girl's parents as a dowry and a condition that she could be returned to her family with the payment of $1,200.

The mother, 61, testified she was not happy about the deal but felt powerless.

"At the time we were newly arrived, and I did not know about rights," the mother said. "I thought it was like in the old country. I cried, I prayed a lot. I was so concerned about this child it has created illness for me to this day."

Her daughter was so distraught about her marriage that she twice attempted suicide. She also accused her husband of subjecting her to emotional and physical abuse, which he denied. She received a restraining order after one incident that resulted in him being convicted of a misdemeanor.

The woman completed high school and also earned a two-year college degree.

The couple are scheduled to appear in court next month to resolve issues of how to divide the marital estate and child support.

It is not unusual for women in the Hmong culture here to marry older men while they are in their teens. Several Hmong women contacted the Journal Sentinel and faulted the wife for taking the case to court.

A 29-year-old Hmong woman said she had been married at 14, and it was her choice. Her husband supported her and helped her complete school. She said she felt the woman in this case should have pressed the elders of the community to end the marriage rather than take it to court.

"It disturbed me to know that an educated Hmong female would take her divorce to this extent and disrespect her culture," the woman said.

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by Guest on March 28th 2009, 9:13 am

Cov phooj ywg,

Nej nyeem cov ntawv no ma? niamtai los puav leej dag nrog tus ntxhai thiab. Qhov no ma yuav niam taig thiab tus ntxhai nkawv ob leeg ua kom tus Vauv raug txim xwb. Tiag yuav tsi muaj tseeb li tus niam tai hai thiab tus ntxhai hai.

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by ceeblaj on April 28th 2009, 11:46 am

TubHmoob wrote:Cov phooj ywg,

Nej nyeem cov ntawv no ma? niamtai los puav leej dag nrog tus ntxhai thiab. Qhov no ma yuav niam taig thiab tus ntxhai nkawv ob leeg ua kom tus Vauv raug txim xwb. Tiag yuav tsi muaj tseeb li tus niam tai hai thiab tus ntxhai hai.

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Tus thaj yeeb no raw li kuv paub xwb tsis yog tim nws tus poj niam thiab niam tais os bawg. Vim lub hauv paus los mus ces txawm yog cov me ua mos mos ab ua cev yiag txias nyob tim blog/thaib xwb los mas koj xav seb luag li sis ib xyoo ib zaug rau thaib/blog laiv tej xyoo tseem ob zaug thiab thaum ua koj ua ntaus thiab ntaus ces txawm los kis teeb meem rau hauv tsev nrog thaum teeb meej loj tuaj lawm ces kawg mus txoj kev no xwb thiab li yuav pab tau txawm kuv los ib yam os bawg.

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by Guest on April 28th 2009, 3:52 pm

ceeblaj wrote:
TubHmoob wrote:Cov phooj ywg,

Nej nyeem cov ntawv no ma? niamtai los puav leej dag nrog tus ntxhai thiab. Qhov no ma yuav niam taig thiab tus ntxhai nkawv ob leeg ua kom tus Vauv raug txim xwb. Tiag yuav tsi muaj tseeb li tus niam tai hai thiab tus ntxhai hai.

TubHmoob

Tus thaj yeeb no raw li kuv paub xwb tsis yog tim nws tus poj niam thiab niam tais os bawg. Vim lub hauv paus los mus ces txawm yog cov me ua mos mos ab ua cev yiag txias nyob tim blog/thaib xwb los mas koj xav seb luag li sis ib xyoo ib zaug rau thaib/blog laiv tej xyoo tseem ob zaug thiab thaum ua koj ua ntaus thiab ntaus ces txawm los kis teeb meem rau hauv tsev nrog thaum teeb meej loj tuaj lawm ces kawg mus txoj kev no xwb thiab li yuav pab tau txawm kuv los ib yam os bawg.
CeebLaj,

Qhov teeb meem ces yog tus phoojywg no twb mus thaib thiab blog ntau zoo lawm pob! yog li tus niam tsev thiaj li ua teeb meem tuaj laud. Yog li ces cia rau luab nom tebchaw no lo ua tus txiav txim pub xwb ma.

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by yujyeeg on October 14th 2009, 4:13 am

tub hmoob, Thiab ceeb laj...
hnub no kuv tuaj pom neb sib ntxhi sib ntxhi ntawm ib ntog kev no es....kuv lam los txais neb cua me ntsis..Neb yog ob tus uas paub thiab nyob ze.
Kuv tsuas hais txog ntawm peb tus txiv neej hmoob xwb, Yog tias leej twg nyiam txoj kev plees kev yi ntshaw txoj kev hluas ces muaj ib lub sij hawm yeej kawg yuav tshwm sim rau hauv yus tsev neeg xwb xwb thiaj tag....Tus uas ua tub sab thiab tus uas rov qab ua hluas ces zoo tib yam nkaus xwb tiag, Yeej ua ua kom luag ntes kiag tau ces thiaj li tsum xwb

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Re: Crime ThaYing Lauj Charged for assault his wife

Post by ceeblaj on October 23rd 2009, 7:24 pm

yujyeeg wrote:tub hmoob, Thiab ceeb laj...
hnub no kuv tuaj pom neb sib ntxhi sib ntxhi ntawm ib ntog kev no es....kuv lam los txais neb cua me ntsis..Neb yog ob tus uas paub thiab nyob ze.
Kuv tsuas hais txog ntawm peb tus txiv neej hmoob xwb, Yog tias leej twg nyiam txoj kev plees kev yi ntshaw txoj kev hluas ces muaj ib lub sij hawm yeej kawg yuav tshwm sim rau hauv yus tsev neeg xwb xwb thiaj tag....Tus uas ua tub sab thiab tus uas rov qab ua hluas ces zoo tib yam nkaus xwb tiag, Yeej ua ua kom luag ntes kiag tau ces thiaj li tsum xwb

muaj tseeb li koj hais los mas vim ua hluas heev dhaus lawm ces lub neeg thiaj puas. Thaum ua mas zoo yus siab tshaj li os bawg tab sis thaum raug txim lawm mas ho mob siab tshaj li zoo li thaj yeeb nov ces xav tuag los tuag tsis tau li lawm os.

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